Vivian A Ponder

In Loving Memory of a Woman of Resilience and Strength: A Tribute to Vivian Alethea (Lee) Ponder

With heavy hearts and profound sadness, we want to honor the life and legacy of Vivian Ponder, a remarkable woman who embodied the essence of resilience, courage, and unwavering strength. She departed this world on July 29, 2023 leaving behind a trail of inspiration and a profound impact on all those fortunate enough to cross her path. Born on March 18, 1958, Vivian was a beacon of determination from an early age. She faced challenges that would have deterred many, but she refused to be defined by adversity. Through perseverance and an unyielding spirit, she overcame every obstacle life presented her, emerging as a true testament to the power of the human spirit. Her journey was not without its trials, as health challenges attempted to hinder her path. Yet, Vivian faced every hurdle with unrelenting resolve, never allowing illness to derail her purpose. Instead, through her experiences she uplifted others. Her courage became a guiding light for all who knew her—a reminder that many things could be conquered with determination and hope. Vivian's greatest joy came from sharing her hard-earned wisdom with the next generation. As a mother, daughter, sister, auntie, cousin, mentor, teacher and guide, she dedicated her life to elevating young minds (vehemently so with her grandchildren) by imparting not only knowledge but also a deep sense of self-worth and possibility. She truly loved her family, and the candid conversations she often exchanged were transformative. Her empathy and compassion knew no bounds, and her actions were a testament to her faith. Vivian Ponder's legacy lives on in the hearts of her family and friends. Though she may have departed this world, her spirit remains eternally present, serving as a reminder that love, devotion, and faithfulness are the cornerstones of a life well-lived. Vivian is survived by her mother, B. Lee; children K. Wallace, R. Sanders, and T. Moreland; brother D. Lee; sisters L. Slappy and P. Lee; nine grandchildren, and many loving cousins, nieces, nephews, friends, and extended family. She is preceded in death by her father, R. Lee; brothers G. Lee, R. Lee, and V. Lee. As we bid farewell, let us proudly carry forward Vivian Ponder's lineage by cherishing the lessons she imparted and taking charge of life with the same valor and tenacity that defined her remarkable journey.